Without question love stories have always been the most popular of genres whether found in novels, plays, or movies. And what most people love to see is the “Happily Ever After” ending. This is as true as it is in fairy tales as it is in film. On occasion, however, there is that story or tale that leaves us with a not so happily ever after conclusion.
Although I enjoy love stories as much as the next guy or gal, the tragic love story always makes more of an impression. It forces me to find the good in a not so pleasant situation. Romeo and Juliet anyone? Shakespeare’s masterpiece is probably the most famous of all tragedies. Where’s the silver lining you ask? Well, after all the turmoil they faced they are now at least at peace and possibly in a much better place together. And if you’re going to die what better place to do it than in your lovers arms. Here’s a list of four movies that came to my mind and seem to fit the profile of “Not So Happily Ever After”
1. City of Angels. Nicolas Cage’s character in City of Angles spends the entire movie falling in love with Meg Ryan and trying to convince her to fall for him. Eventually it is Cage who falls as he takes the plunge to give up his supernatural state of being and become fully human. It is the only way he can be with her and she finally accepts him and fully returns his love. But just when everything seems like paradise she is hit a by a truck while riding her bike and dies leaving Cage all alone and heartbroken.
Tragic love story for sure, but all throughout the movie there is a greater underlying meaning. And that meaning is life and all its beauty and pleasure, from the simple act of knowing what a pear tastes like to the vital act of breathing. Things we take for granted are things Seth, Cage’s character, never will. In the end we see him realizing this in that final shot. He dives into the ocean feeling the power of the waves and the warmth of the water. It is “pure” ecstasy. He smiles.
2. Cast Away. It wasn’t the most beloved film and not easily discerned as a love story, but Cast Away was indeed that. We get a glimpse of the relationship between Tom Hanks and Helen Hunt in the beginning and already we know how strong their bond is. Just before getting on the fateful flight, Hanks tells Hunt he’ll be right back. If only she knew he meant two and half years! Yet throughout his struggle to survive in isolation on the island the one constant that forces him to survive is his love for her…and Wilson. His longing to be reunited with her is what keeps him alive and gives him the courage to make a desperate attempt to cross the ocean on a makeshift raft.
But after all that, after all his tribulations he returns only to discover that she has moved on with her life, married another man, and had a child. Time had stopped for Chuck (Hanks) but not for Kelly (Hunt).
A total bummer made worse by the fact that they both realized in the end that they still deeply cared for each other, but couldn’t do a thing about it. But not all hope is lost as we see in the end that there are many paths to take in this thing called life. Remember that Chuck used all those FedEx packages that washed up on the shore for his survival, including the one he didn’t open. That single package was his connection, along with Kelly, back to civilization. He must’ve said to himself “If I ever get off this damn island I’m going to hand deliver this package to its owner”. It was another source of motivation to stay alive. As it turns out the package belonged to a very kind and attractive woman. Chuck actually encounters her briefly at a crossroads and realizes who she is as she drives away. He gets back in his car and heads in the same direction towards a new life, a new beginning.
3. Seven Pounds. I just watched this last night and I have to admit it was the initial inspiration for this post. Throughout most of the movie it’s hard to tell just what the heck Will Smith is doing. Is he trying to help people or set them up for something terrible? And if you haven’t yet seen Seven Pounds I advise you to skip this part entirely. We figure out as events unfold that Smith’s wife died in a car accident that was partly his fault. Keep your eyes on the road and not on your cell phone people! He has given up on his own life and desires to give all of himself to people that need him, literally. His brother had lung cancer; he gave his brother one of his. A nice old lady had liver disease; he gave her part of his liver. A little kid had bone marrow cancer; he painfully donated some of his own.
As they say love finds you when you’re not looking for it, and Ben (Smith) slowly but surely falls in love with Emily (Rosario Dawson). Unfortunately she has a congestive heart condition and not much time to live. She had been on his list of people to help from the beginning, but the falling in love thing was nowhere to be found on that list. Yet it happens and near the end of the movie he makes one last attempt to see what her chances are of receiving a heart transplant. In essence, it’s his last glimmer of hope for bringing his own heart back to life and getting a second chance at life and love.
As soon as the doctor tells him that because of her rare blood type she has about a three percent chance of locating a donor he knows what he has to do. In fact, the revelation prompts him to finally do what he had been planning all along. Can you guess what weighs approximately Seven Pounds? That’s right, Ben’s heart. Ben was an intriguing and tragic character, but in the end he did so much good for so many people. He gave his own life and body, which in turn saved maybe four or five others and positively affected much more than that.
4. Forrest Gump. There’s so much going on in this classic that it’s easy to mistake it for something other than a love story. Forrest Gump goes on so many adventures from Vietnam to being a shrimping boat captain, from international ping pong tournaments to running across country. He meets presidents and celebrities and makes many friends. Yet all he can ever think about is Jenny. He loves her from the moment she says “You can sit here” on the school bus. However, Jenny rejects Forrest even though she cares about him.
She tells him at one point in the movie that he doesn’t know what love is, assuming that because he’s not the “sharpest tool in the shed” he can’t possibly understand the meaning of love. “I’m not a smart man, but I know what love is” said Forrest. On the contrary it’s Jenny who doesn’t understand love. Her dreams, her past, and her lifestyle delude her idea of love and although she is of a higher intellect than Forrest she’s nowwhere close to the kind of love he knows and feels. It’s not until near the end of the movie after she cleans up that she realizes how precious Forrest is and how much she loves him.
It’s just too bad that she can’t figure it all out until she’s stricken with a life threatening illness. She dies and Forrest is left without the one person he always wanted to be with, his Jenny.
This is still a tough one for me to find the ray of hope in. Forrest Gump is one of the best movies I’ve ever seen and I’ve watched it so many times. I’m sure I’ll watch it again and again in the years ahead, but every time I feel like watching it I have to make sure that I’m ready for it. It always leaves me with a melancholy feeling, but perhaps there is still a good way to look at it. I’ve heard people say that, yeah it’s sad that Jenny dies but now Forrest has his son to love. That’s great, but I’d like to think that just like that floating feather in the end, Forrest’s destiny is still unfolding. There’s still so much more life for him to live and with the way his life had been up till that point, who knows what more he will experience.
So there you have it. Four movies off the top of my head (well, maybe Seven Pounds doesn’t fall into this category) that ended not so happily ever after. Tragic in a sense yet still with a sense of hope in all of them.